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Bondage Positions: Standing Options with an Overhead Attachment Point
I confess I have a soft spot for standing bondage positions. The very first time I ever truly placed Joy in bondage, it involved a pair of leather cuffs, a length of chain and an eye hook I set into...
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Bondage Position: Spreadeagle
Spreadeagle is probably the most commonly known bondage position, and is the one most likely to come to mind when the word “bondage” is mentioned to a member of the vanilla world. The spreadeagle...
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Choosing a Bondage Position
I’m in the midst of planning my next adventure with Joy, an activity that always makes me tingle with anticipation. I wouldn’t go so far as to say that the planning is as good as the adventure itself,...
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Bondage Positions: The Frog Tie
The frog tie gets its name from the position in which it holds the submissive partner’s legs when they are bound. Each leg is bent back at the knee and the ankle is bound to its corresponding thigh,...
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Bondage Positions for Spanking
A couple days ago, My Bottom Smarts posted a list of the Top 20 Spanking Positions (and hat tip to Spanky for pointing me to it). Bonnie, the author, provides a description of each position as well as...
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Bondage Positions for Blow Jobs
Bondage Positions for Receiving Blow Jobs Before I begin, I want to remind readers that I am a bondage pragmatist. In other words, I prefer function over form and simplicity to complexity when it comes...
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Magic
”I don’t like to be tied up.” Every once in awhile in my relationship with Joy, I get to work magic. I know you probably don’t believe in magic, but in this case, that’s what it feels like. I get to...
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Anticipation Can Be Half the Fun
It’s certainly fun to be spontaneous, and it can be very fun to take your partner unawares with a pair of cuffs concealed behind your back and a ball gag in you back pocket. “Surprise, honey!” But you...
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Much Ado About Patience
I know I’ve written on this theme before, but this topic has been one I’ve definitely learned the hard way, and I think it bears repeating. A successful Dominant must have many different character...
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After All, Practice Makes Perfect
One of the techniques I use to assert Dominance over Joy is to require her to perform (sexual) tasks. There have been lots of different tasks over the years: going panty-free and wearing skirts for a...
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